INFERIORITY COMPLEX: How to overcome it

            INFERIORITY COMPLEX: How to overcome it  

The main cause seems to be the fact you are inferior to others around you in a particular manner: you’re short, you’re fat, you’re bold, you’re poor, you’re less educated, you are short etc. But, that’s not the real cause. we are all inferior to other people in some ways, and superior in others. We all have our combinations of qualities and flaws and overall we’re not that different from each other.

 We have been victims of comparison where we inevitably compare ourselves with others.  This comparison does more harm to us than good. This does not mean we stop looking up to others. But there is a difference between learning from others and simply comparing yourself with them and then feeling, "I wish I was like Him/Her." 

    I used to have this inferiority complex, anytime I see attractive and fashionable ladies, I compare myself to them, thereby hurting myself.      Over time, with self conscious actions and very positive and supportive friends, I have overcome inferiority complex. I realized that I'm also a beautiful lady, I saw the good qualities I possess. Beauty lies in simplicity.

               How To Overcome Inferiority Complex

1.Change your thoughts by changing your negative self talk: start by saying positive things to yourself, see the beauty in yourself and consider yourself as the best. "Nobody can make you feel inferior without your permission-Eleanor Roosevelt"

2.Love yourself: self love is very necessary. When you love yourself and you love everything about yourself,you'll be more confident. Stop trying and wishing to be someone else. Love yourself the way you are.  Be yourself and create a good identity for yourself. I'm so obsessed with myself, People around me know that. If I don't love myself, who will love me?

3.Move with positive people: It's very important to move with people with positive minds.*Be with people who like others the way they are*Be with people who will accept you the way you are*Be with people who will influence you positively Your confidence doesn't depend on other people, it depends on YOU

.4.Confront your biggest fear: if you're confident ...being courageous is an additional attribute. when you're confident and courageous, you can face any challenge.

 Love yourself, nobody will love you the way you love yourself.... 

            I LOVE ME!